My fellow men ask me questions about " dating " and "how to relate to women " and other such topics all the time .
But frankly the best answer for all of these type of questions is "experience."
But naturally the next question is how do you get experience if you don't know how to attract women?
You get experience any way you can. Go wherever there are lots of women and just practice. Don't worry if you are perfect. Just practice and get the experience yourself. At some point you will learn on your own and you will start getting dates. Yes that's right - no matter how unsightly, stupid, poor or old you are. If you just practice you will start getting dates.
And when you start getting dates. Then date, date, date, date, date!
It is referred to as "multi" or serial dating.
I guess I should explain. I am not a cheater and don't believe in cheating. That is not what serial dating is about. Serial dating is about the times you are NOT in a relationship. It is about what you do in between relationships. It is about sensibly selecting a companion.
And I am not talking about anyone who multiple or serial date their entire lives. Obviously those people have some major relationship problems.
But, serial dating applied inside the right context is not only not dysfunctional, but it is quite the contrary. Serial dating done to get a better understanding of the opposite sex, so you can figure out who you are partial to, and what you like, and what kinds of individuals like you, is about the most mentally healthy thing you can do.
Do you remember what good old mom and dad use to say to you when you were a teenager?
"Don't get too serious with one person. You need to meet and date different people.
It may seem immature, but this teenage advice is what most adults who are dating need to remember.
Most of us adults never really followed good old mom and dad's advice. We instead met someone we kind of liked and connected with them and ignored the rest.
Sort of like, we got together with the first acceptable person who showed some real interest in us.
But bear in mind, there is a significant difference between "acceptable¯" and "ideal"¯ and also unfortunately most people normally continue this routine of connecting with the first "acceptable"¯ person who comes along well into adulthood.
We call this "settling".
We call this "compromising".
We call this all sorts of names years later when we realize we aren't happy.
You see there are many types of people in the world and, believe it or not, there is someone for everyone. But the problem is you may have to meet a heck of a lot of people to find that one someone.
Another problem is that many people are so confused about life and relationships and people, they don't really have any idea of what kind of personality is a good match for them. They base their ideals off of the Hollywood imagery of what they think they want.
But the cure for all of this is not very complex. You see, when you meet and date a lot of different people a natural learning process emerges. It is called experience. No matter how dumb you are, you figure it out sooner or later. Some people sooner. Some people later. You can learn about anything this way, and there is no better teacher.
And lo and behold, that is all us "dating gurus" have ever successfully done to meet women and attract women . We have just gone out and about and got a lot of experience.
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